Jewish funeral and mourning practices have developed over centuries. Many people comment that the guidance offered by Jewish tradition was extremely helpful and provided support during the difficult time of loss. The rituals for friends and families have been developed to address the feelings of intense grief that the death of a loved one. People are often overcome with feelings of guilt, hurt, loss anger, or listlessness. The Jewish way of mourning lessens the loneliness and isolation of the bereaved and brings the individual into a community of comforters.
The clergy of Beth El work with the Chevra Kaddisha to help families through this difficult time. The Chevra Kaddisha is a group of men and women dedicated to serving the needs of congregants who experience a death in the family. It provides a Shivah meal and, most importantly, will, on request, perform tahara. (The clergy arrange for minyan leaders, prayer books, and Shivah chairs as needed.) Tahara is the careful and caring preparation of the body of the deceased for burial, in accordance with Jewish custom and law. The traditional view is that each person is holy. Hence, the preparations for burial are done with respect and honor for the deceased.
The work of the Chevra Kaddisha constitutes a Chesed Shel Emet, a true act of kindness that is performed without ulterior motive, for the service can never be repaid. There is no charge for these services and no synagogue funds are allocated for them. Donations to Beth El’s Chevra Kaddisha Fund allow it to continue its work.
If Beth El’s Chevra Kaddisha is not available, we will help make arrangements for tahara with the City Wide Chevra Kaddisha.
Beth El’s Chevra Kaddisha does not offer Shomrim services. Shomrim, guardians for the body, sit with the body at the funeral home 24 hours a day until the time of burial. If you would like this to occur, you can make these arrangements directly with the funeral home you have selected.
Any questions regarding the operations of Beth El’s Chevra Kaddisha should be directed to Darryl Sherman, Chairman, at 301-656-5263, or to the clergy. At the time of death, the clergy will contact the Chevra Kaddisha.